feat: manage waitlist and remove group members

- Add group-waitlist module (list/promote/remove entries)
- Remove attendee with optional atomic promotion from waitlist
- Block removal when attendee has payments (attendee_has_payments)
- Waitlist detail modal matching members UI; optimistic add-to-waitlist
- Responsive tweaks for the members/waitlist tabs

apps/backend/src/modules/group-waitlist/index.ts

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+export { default as groupWaitlistRoutes } from './routes';